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Mary
Trotti
Apr 24, 1942 — Jul 30, 2026
North Bellmore, NY
Mary Feimer Trotti passed away peacefully on July 30, 2026, at the age of 84.
Born on April 24, 1942, Mary grew up in the Bronx, New York. She later raised her family in Newburgh, New York, where she devoted herself to creating a loving home filled with warmth, laughter, and unwavering support. In 1997, she moved to Port St. Lucie, Florida, where she enjoyed many years of retirement before relocating to North Bellmore, New York, in 2025 to be closer to family during the final chapter of her life.
To her children she was simply “Mom.” To her grandchildren she was “Grandma” and “Momma,” and to her great-grandchildren she was lovingly known as “Gigi.”
She also enjoyed life’s simple pleasures. She loved visiting casinos to play the slot machines, watching comedy shows, and spending time with her beloved husband, Rocco, enjoying The Price Is Right. While those moments brought her happiness, nothing compared to the joy she found in spending time with her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren.
Mary was predeceased by her beloved husband, Rocco Trotti; her parents, Max Feimer and Mary Feimer; and her sister, Nancy Sullivan.
She is survived by her three children: Steve Trotti and his wife, Tanya, of Orlando, Florida, along with their children, Ava and Nikolas; Nancy Witherow of Port St. Lucie, Florida, and her children, Lindsay, Troy, and James; and Paul Trotti and his wife, Stacey, of North Bellmore, New York, along with their children, Jake and Rachel.
She is also survived by her six cherished great-grandchildren: Joey, Lorenzo, Valentina, Santino, Ezekiel, and XiXi; her brothers, Mathias Feimer and his wife, Terry, of Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, and Ronald Feimer and his wife, Fran, of the Bronx, New York; along with many nieces, nephews, extended family members, and friends who will miss her dearly.
In accordance with Mary’s wishes, she will be cremated. A private celebration of her life will be held at a later date.
She will be deeply missed as Mom, Grandma, Momma, and Gigi, but she will remain forever in the hearts of all who were blessed to know and love her.
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