I believe in a higher power. I believe in an afterlife. I believe that all things happen for a reason in life even though I may not agree with the specifics of why, when and how. I had another feather fall out of thin air again... Weird its never happened to me until I met your side of the family. I know it happens to them and it's so crazy that it has happened a total of 3 times now. I pray that you are in peace and you have returned to the man whom I have heard many Good things about. I pray that u will always watch over my brother and guide him, give him a sign that you are there, a sign that the past is all forgiven and that if u were here you would also heal that relationship with him. I know that you're looking down and although my existence was not what you may have wanted, what you have believed to be true, or what you were capable at the time, I know that you see me, and my brother and I know that we are together for a reason. I promise I will always look out for him the way a big sister does, I promise to share the holidays with him, share so many memories es with him and to provide him with the love he needs. I know I'm typing to myself and that's okay... It feels good to "talk to you I guess". Thank you for this wonderful family I have now. It's been such a blessing to find them and have them. To see someone and see such a resemblance in them... To finally see a picture of u... See you when I look in the mirror everyday... It's something I can't put into words... A Lil scary too! Haaa but u were Def a good looking dude, I mean have you seen us 🤣😂🤣. Gonna see my brother Tommy tomorrow a regular hang out as we do and I'll give him an extra hug for you! Hold down the fort up there, I'll meet you one day...

I would like to express my condolences to anyone who may need them for the passing of Thomas j hickey. I have searched for 22 years to find him and I am too late unfortunately. He was my biological father who never knew me and I never knew him... I have searched to know what happened, to let him know although he wasn't in my life as a father/dad would have, I was blessed to have a wonderful man know and love me as his very own 💛 anyone reading this please contact me as I have longed to know something about him my whole life. I would greatly appreciate to know the man you mourn and loved so much. sulanok@gmail.com thanks in advance. God bless.

WE ALL MISS AND LOVE YOU AND KNOW YOU ARE WATCHING OVER US ALL THE TIME, EVERY DAY, WITH ALL THE OTHERS, THANK GOD FOR THAT. SO GLAD YOU ARE STILL GIVING US SIGNS. LOVE YOU, LOVE YOU ALWAYS.

5/11/18. A year and a month. Still seems unreal at times. What an impact you’ve had on so many. Missing you Tom.

4/10/18 9:48pm. Little did I know one year ago we would be together for the last time that night. Tom, I write to you as if I could connect directly with you .... annd maybe I really can. Please know I will ALWAYS remember and hold close to my heart the special connection we always shared. In good times, not so good times and during the times when I would just wonder where and how you were. Thank you for being my friend. Fior caring for me. For protecting me. And for trying to direct me (LOL). You are one in a million. I miss you so much.

3/11/18. Eleven months. Hope you onow how much you are missed.

3/10/18. Tomorrow is the 11th. I know I can’t avoid that number but it continues to feel a little like an electric shock. Next month will mark a year since you’re gone. Time goes by, some days seem like forever and other days feel like they’re over in the blink of an eye. I hope you know the impact you had on so many and I pray you found your peace.

2/11/18. The number 11 has such a different affect on me. It’s been 10 months since you left us and I pray every day that your heart and soul are filled with peace. The clocks keep ticking, the calendars turn the next page and we all try to make each day count. If I could tell you anuthing right now ... the first thing I would say is YOU ARE MISSED.

2/1/18. A new month begins in the new year. Time does not heal but if you pray and believe enough time can help you move forward day by day. I feel in my heart you want us to move forward. But you will NEVER be forgotten. Miss you Tom.

1/11/18. A new year and 9 months since you’re gone and I think of you every day. I pray you found your peace. Please watch over all of us who miss you so very much and guide us to find our peace.

12/12/17. 8 months that sometimes feels like yesterday. I know how fragile life can be and because I believe that, I realize how important it is to LIVE and LOVE with your whole heart and soul. And you did. Thank you Tom for sharing that with me. I will forever think of you when I hear these song lyrics ... "everybody listen to me, and return me to my ship ... I'm your captain ... I'm getting closer to my home." Ciao my friend. I wish you peace forever and always. "Shelly"

Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.