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Barbara A. Oberlin

October 1, 1954 - July 14, 2020
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Affordable Cremation Services of New York
130 Carleton Avenue
Central Islip, New York 11722
(516) 546-4626
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Resided in Lake Ronkonkoma, NY

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Samantha Williamson left a message on August 10, 2020:
You brought me into this world, showering me with constant love. I hope you know exactly how much you mean to me, Mommy, and all I would do for you because I love you with all my soul. You taught me so much and helped me grow both physically and spiritually. I think about you all day, every day, and I am looking forward to the day I can return to your arms. Sending infinite hugs and kisses your way, Mom. Be at peace... There’s not a moment I don’t miss you. XOXO ❤️
Lyndsey Anderson left a message on August 8, 2020:
It's still so unbelievable that you're gone. There aren't words that convey the enormous loss I feel in my heart. You will always be the strongest person I know and I haven't figured out yet how to feel normal without you. You were a Great mom, and Grammies! You taught us to laugh hard, work your butt off, and to love each other with all we've got! There was never a doubt of how much you loved us! You had a rough life and got a bs deal with Cancer! I'm so sorry, you deserved so much better!! I wish so many things, especially that you could've gotten better and we could've spent more time together! I wish I could hug you and tell you how much I love you! I know you are free and the most beautiful Angel. I miss and love you mosterest!! Always & Forever ❤
Buster Humphrey left a message on August 6, 2020:
We miss you every day
Lynn Humphrey left a message on August 6, 2020:
My poem for Barbara 💜⭐️😇 Thank you My Sister 💝, for the fireflies you sent Tuesday night 💫 Thru teary eyes 😢 we watched as they spun rhythmically toward the moon’s light 🌙 So quickly they disappeared out of our vision, just a glimpse of your gift 🎁 as you continued on your mission Your message I understood as an important lesson on life Not to question His will 💟or allow our hearts to fill with strife Supposing, our Heavenly 💟 reward is established by our suffering here You are safely home 🏡 in God’s light my wonderful Barbara dear💜 For thirteen years You fought like A Warrior, 🥊 the pain you endured Your Spirit craved lightness 🙏🏼Praying for your freedom to be restored So Godspeed my beautiful Barb, over your trees, 🌳 across a blue sky 🌌 For Jesus✝️ taught us we never really die💜☮️ ~Libby De Bluga (lynn💜) 07/15/20
Lynn Humphrey left a message on August 6, 2020:
My beautiful sister Barb, you are missed so much by all of us💜 I’m thankful that you are out of your pain now, but I wish it could’ve been different & you would be healthy again & still with us all😍I know you’re with Dad & Nanny & our beautiful cousins Susan & Billy so I know you’re with the best💜 I wish your time here would’ve been longer, but that’s not my call. I know you’re with Jesus & that makes me happy for you💜 you were always blessed 💙🙏🏼 I love you, your sister, Lynn😘🌸⭐️😇☮️
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